REMEMBER Tiffani

Tiffani Starkey
34 YEARS OLD ·
Cape Coral,
Florida
Tiffani Briana Starkey was 34 years old, a mother of two young children, and a Board-Certified Behavior Analyst. Her family remembered a woman devoted to her children and to helping others through her work in the Applied Behavior Analysis community.
Tiffani was born July 8, 1989, in Springfield, Pennsylvania, and had lived in Cape Coral since 2018 after previously living in Delaware. She was a Board-Certified Behavior Analyst and was active in the Applied Behavior Analysis community. Tiffani was the mother of two young children, who were one and three years old when she died.
THE RECORD
Tiffani Starkey, 34, was killed in Cape Coral in March 2024. Family reporting identified her longtime boyfriend and the father of her two young children as the person who killed her before taking his own life; both children were present nearby.
RELATIONSHIP CONTEXT
Ex-boyfriend
Available sources identify the relationship to the person responsible as ex-boyfriend.
CHILDREN / ADDITIONAL VICTIMS
TIMELINE
Custody exchange
Tiffani went to her parents' Cape Coral home for a custody exchange involving her two young children.
Fatal incident
During the custody exchange, Tiffani was fatally shot. Her former partner subsequently died from a self-inflicted gunshot wound.
INFORMATION LIMITATIONS
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TRANSPARENCY / RECORD NOTE
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